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Comments: Very good site 8 Tue November 11 2003 - 00:20:24 Fullname: Edna banjanovic Email: ednabcool@hotmail.com Where are you from?: canada Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: I like your site yo and what's your number but im a girl og bye well done. 9 Fri March 28 2003 - 21:30:00 Fullname: Tecza Email: Where are you from?: USA Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: NetSearch How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: Being as you have so many links on this page i thought maybe this new site would be a top one! Christina Aguilera is on tour with Justin Timberlake. There is this wonderful site that helps you to get better seating at the concerts and all sort's of great things! You should all check it out. It's totally worth it. I'm already signed up! http://www.xtinaxposed.com/ Nice site,.. i really enjoy all the links. What a great idea! ~tEc 10 Wed December 25 2002 - 00:52:06 Fullname: Tyler Puckett Email: tylerdpuckett@hotmail.com Where are you from?: Texas Homepage Name: Welcome to the Puckett Family's Homepage Homepage URL: http://www.angelfire.com/tx5/puckettfamily Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: Hi, You did a great job on your web page! Please visit the Puckett Family Homepage at www.angelfire.com/tx5/puckettfamily Please sign in the Guest Book (It means a lot to me :) Merry Christmas, Tyler Puckett 11 Fri September 06 2002 - 03:11:57 Fullname: Sally Rogers Email: jaksr9281@aol.com Where are you from?: new iberia Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: Hey Darlene, I tried to e-mail you before but never heard back from you. I'm trying again. Let me know when you get this. Talk to you later, Sally 12 Thu January 10 2002 - 16:05:14 Fullname: karen Bower Email: KLKeehn Where are you from?: Niagara falls ny Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: Leo is one of my most favorite authors. I came to know him when i was in high school and was introduced to him by a teacher who showed us video tapes of his lectures. many times i left class in tears because he was so moving. He has been in my heart every since. Thanks for making this web page, i saved it in my favorites. With Love Karen 13 Fri January 04 2002 - 06:35:58 Fullname: debi and keith hill Email: rockytubby@aol.com Where are you from?: lansing michigan Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: NetSearch How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: we deeply regret leo buscaglia past away. some how we always thought he would live forever. we've enjoyed all his books. his talent helped us in many ways and many times over. we'll miss you leo but we you won't be forgotten. 14 Mon November 12 2001 - 09:42:50 Fullname: Theophilus Nkosingiphile Bhengu Email: tbhengu@ufh.ac.za Where are you from?: Alice, Eastern Cape Province, South Africa Homepage Name: University of Fort Hare Homepage URL: http://www.ufh.ac.za Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: I attended a leadership workshop as a student in 1989 inDurban. The facilitator played us videos of Leo Buscaglia. I then sent her a blank video tape for her to record Buscaglia's "The Art of Being Fully Human" and "Together With Leo" which she did. I have had that video since then. It's been sometime since I have played. This weekend, I was going through my old videos and I came across this video and watched again to the end. It touched me so much that I decided to check whether there was a website on Buscaglia. Thank you so much for this website. I did not even know that he had a heart attack in 1998. Theo 15 Mon September 17 2001 - 04:40:20 Fullname: Allen Escagne Email: texasaliii@cs.com Where are you from?: Texas Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: NetSearch How good do you think this site is: No comments Comments: just looked up the name. Thought id say HI 16 Fri September 14 2001 - 18:11:11 Fullname: VALERIE Email: Where are you from?: SAN ANTIONO Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: From someone else guestbook How good do you think this site is: Looks great! Comments: I THINK IT WAS VERY GOOD TO PUT IN THE COMPUTER 17 Thu September 06 2001 - 12:45:36 Fullname: Rita Hardy Email: rita.hardy@us.pwcglobal.com Where are you from?: Brooklyn Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: Word of Mouth How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: You look great Darlene and so happy!!! 18 Mon August 20 2001 - 09:47:41 Fullname: Raymond Lee Email: ultraman617@yahoo.com.sg Where are you from?: Singapore Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: Just Surfed On It! How good do you think this site is: Looks great! Comments: Good Job~! You Have Define Infatuation And Love Very Clearly~! 19 Thu August 16 2001 - 04:53:16 Fullname: London Email: Where are you from?: California Homepage Name: Homepage URL: Reference: NetSearch How good do you think this site is: Well Done!!! Comments: Great job!!Thankx for making this site! It's nice to sometimes have little reminder form Dr.Buscaglia's philosophy :) 20 Mon July 23 2001 - 11:31:47 Fullname: Em™® Email: ady_tay@hotmail.com Where are you from?: Malaysia Homepage Name: Ladies Night Room Homepage URL: http://communities.msn.com.my/LadiesNightRoom/_whatsnew.msnw Reference: NetSearch How good do you think this site is: Looks great! Comments: You are really good on this issue, well done...I would like to share my opinion with you on this issue too, here is my article for your reference, hope you will enjoy it. ROMANTIC INFATUATION IS "THE GREAT DECEIVER" THAT FOOLS SO MANY YOUNG PEOPLE The dictionary defines infatuation as the state of being "blindly in love". You are "blind" to the faults of the other person. You think that he/she is just perfect. Other people can see plenty of faults but you don't see them. You don't want to see them. Others may point out some of the faults to you but you ignore them because you are "blindly in love". How do infatuations start? If I have feelings of love for someone, will I always have those feelings? What are the dangers of romantic infatuation? How do infatuations end? How can I tell if my love is real or just a romantic infatuation? Let's consider these important questions. INFATUATIONS START FAST Romantic infatuations usually start fast. A guy sees a girl and he is attracted to her. He looks at her and smiles. Their eyes meet and lock. She gives a shy smile and looks away. But the message has gotten through, "He's interested in me". And the same message has been conveyed to him. It's a wonderful feeling to know that someone of the opposite sex is interested in you. The romance begins to blossom. It builds as it goes. Each enjoying the feeling of being attractive to someone of the opposite sex. The feeling of being in love and the feeling that someone loves you are wonderful feelings. The guy and the girl may not know each other very well at all but before long, each is saying, "I've never felt like this before. I must be in love!" Is this real love? No, the person has not fallen in love with the other person. He/she has fallen in love with the wonderful feeling of love. "IF YOU HAVE FEELINGS OF LOVE FOR SOMEONE, WILL YOU ALWAYS HAVE THOSE FEELINGS?" The answer is NO. Feelings of love are feelings, and feelings go up and feelings come down. They are never permanent. Our feelings follow cycles. We have "highs" and we have "lows". You may be on a "high" today, but a few days later, you may hit a "low". There is really no reason for it but you just hit bottom. Before long, you feeling change and once more you're on top again. Some people have higher "highs" than others and some have lower "lows". Some manage to stay on the mountain top longer than others but feelings are never permanent. They change constantly. The feelings you have when you are involved with a romantic infatuation are wonderful but they are feelings and feelings will change. WHAT ARE THE DANGERS OF A ROMANTIC INFATUATION? There are 2 big mistakes you can make when you are infatuated :- Mistake #1 Is getting involved sexually. One day those wonderful romantic feelings will be gone and you will wonder what happened to your perfect romance. Then will come the sad part of breaking up. Breaking up is always painful but when you have been involved sexually, it's ten times worse. Teens by the multiplied thousands will tell you "I wish we had not gotten involved sexually. That made it so much worse when we broke up". Mistake #2 Is rushing into a premature marriage. Marriage is serious business. It's not all moonlight, romance and roses. It's daylight, diapers and dishes! One day the romantic feelings will hit bottom. He's worried about his job and how's he going to pay all those bills. She's been up half the night with a sick baby. He looks at her and says, "I don't think I love you any more". She says, "I don't love you any more either". They head for the divorce court with all the heartbreak involved. It was only romantic infatuations. HOW DO INFATUATIONS END? Infatuation ends like they began - fast. They don't last long. They are like a ride on a roller coaster. It's fun and thrills while it lasts but it soon comes to an end. "HOW CAN I KNOW IF MY LOVE IS REAL OR JUST AN INFATUATION?" It is NOT easy to tell if love is real or just an infatuation. In real love, you want to be with the one you love. The same thing of an infatuation. In real love you may get funny feelings when you think about that person or talk to him or her. The same is true of infatuation. In real love, there is a physical attraction to the one you love. The same is true of an infatuation. But there are differences. Infatuation starts fast but real love usually starts slow. Often it is just a friendship at first. You enjoy being together. But the friendship grows and one ay you discover that you truly love each other. Infatuation is blind. You cannot see the other person's faults because you are "blindly in love". But real love is not blind. You see the person's fault but you love that person, faults and all. Infatuation is all in the feelings but real love is more than a beautiful feeling. Anybody can say, "I love you" but real love is more than just words - it's a commitment. A commitment is a choice which is backed up with actions. At times you may have wonderful feelings and at other times you don't have them. But your love for that person is unchanged because you are committed to him or her. Young people ask, "How can you hold on to love? Why is it so hard to keep?" In most cases, the reason is just a passing infatuation. You may be involved in four to five infatuations as you go through our life. Each time you may think, "This is it! At last I've found the right person!" But later it turns out to be a passing infatuation. The best way to find out if your love is real is to give it time. Real love will survive the test of time. Infatuations won't - they fizzle out. Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, gave us some good advice. He said, "Keep your heart with all diligence" Concerning romantic matters, this means "guard your affections". Don't go bananas over someone. Keep it cool. You do not have to be "blindly in love". You do not have to be so carried away with an infatuation that you do foolish things. You can use good sense in deciding that you do not want to become involved with someone who is not good for you. You don't have to "fall in love". It's fine to seek friendships with those of the opposite sex but don't get physical and don't be in a hurry. You may really like that person but guard your affections. Friends don't "break up" but lovers do. And when they do, there is a lot of hurt and regrets. You can send back the pictures. You can send back the gifts but you cannot send back the hurt and the regrets. Romantic infatuation is the great deceiver that fools so many young people. The feelings you have when you are involved in a romantic infatuation are wonderful but they will not last. You may really like someone but guard your affections. Don't get involved sexually. Back to JailerGirls HomePage 1 2
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