301 March 30 2010 at 06:18:48
Comments: i am new and trying to find my way. Thank you for your thoughts and opions on the Life. It was greatly helpful.
Questions: I am still questioning the "amount" of submission in my life. Trying to find that happy medium between the outside the home and inside. We are communicating and working together.
302 March 29 2010 at 09:32:49
Comments: i'm so impressed with this site...it's depth and respect of those of us who have not yet found the perfect RL D/s relationship but have known themselves to be submissives to their core from the beginning. Yes, turn off the PC is sound advice on one level, but there is still learning and self-exploration and analysis to be acheived in a "safe" manner, in online relationships because, when things go wrong, or when the "red flags" surface that our Dom is simply a poser, we CAN simply turn off our PC. As we explore we learn what it is that pleases us in a Dom, what things make us question His dominance (I'm speaking from a completely hetero viewpoint, Im aware...although bisexual, i have a difficult time being submissive to a Domme, though i never rule it out completely) Power play online is, in a sense RP as are "scenes" in RL, both occur in our psyche and teach us about ourselves in relation to another person. There is always a part of me that feels that my enculturation will negate my need to submit, but through learning excercises like those found online, i am able to not only envision a future RL D/s Relationship but integrate those formerly "rejected" parts of myself that always knew that me whole being craved respectful Domination. Thank you again for this wonderful site!!
Name: Janine Portal
303 March 28 2010 at 08:19:12
Name: Surly Monk
304 March 26 2010 at 23:06:55
Comments: It is hard for me to put into words the sense of relief I feel at having found your site. I am a rank newcomer sincerely searching knowledge. Online, I encounter so much material, and so many people, who set off my "unreality" alarms. You have validated those alarms, and that is a great gift, but you also validate my hopes, and that is an even greater treasure. In just a few minutes of reading here, I feel much more relaxed, strong and grounded. Thank you so much.
305 March 23 2010 at 08:56:44
Comments: Thank you for sharing so freely.
Name: G Kulzer
306 March 22 2010 at 04:45:17
Comments: I loved your Cinderella Complex post so much i added it to a social site i belong to, i hope thats ok http://anownedlife.socialparody.com/pg/blog/akittenone/read/1009613/the-cinderella-complex
307 March 22 2010 at 03:28:11
308 March 21 2010 at 10:00:00
Comments: its sites like these that help to ease the uneven road i am traveling. resiliency is an understatement. dusting off, licking wounds and keep on stepping is my motto of choice. thank you for providing a little clarity into my life.
Questions: more of a statement. the only difference between the BDSM lifestyle and the vanilla lifestyle is that you are allowed and expected to make mistakes and misteps.
309 March 21 2010 at 08:06:27
310 March 09 2010 at 08:01:43
311 March 08 2010 at 14:23:31
Comments: Thank you. What an interesting, insightful and compassionate site. i feel like I've been given a gift from all the information presented.
Questions: After a long struggle (tears, denial and councelling)I have accepted that I am a sub who wants this lifestyle. My problem is I am married to a loving and supportive man who wants to explore this with me but whom is not a D. How can we do this??? Why can't I have love and be true to who I am?
312 March 06 2010 at 09:25:37
Comments: Thanks for the share!
313 March 06 2010 at 06:37:01
Comments: I love this site !!
314 March 02 2010 at 03:11:32
Comments: about to embark on a relationship as a sub, and am nervous and excited- the reasons all my previous relationships have not worked may be about to be solved, and your website has helped a lot!
315 March 01 2010 at 21:37:36
Comments: Reading your site, I no longer feel ashamed of being a slave. Thank you.
Name: Slave Vivi
316 March 01 2010 at 00:31:04
Comments: I am a married woman in a vanilla relationship, I have just recently realised that I am submissive, I have a Dom who has made me look deep within myself and I have come across your site in my desire to please him. I thank you for your site is very informative and has been very helpful.
Questions: I would like to know if I can sustain both relationships over a long period of time? lol, I suppose I can only answer that one
317 February 22 2010 at 11:33:54
Comments: This site is helpful. I am new to bdsm. It gave me a lot of insite.
Questions: I am a new sub that met my master online. I am affraid that the distance and events in my hectic life are making my master not want me as his sub. Would love to know what to do. Im madly in love with him and truly believe he is my purpose in life. I already dont know all i should abt being a good sub. Everything else just adds to it. Then add in distance. Please help
318 February 20 2010 at 02:44:14
Comments: i have just found this sight and i find it very insightful thank you so much and i enjoyed reading it
319 February 19 2010 at 07:53:31
Comments: I am a brand new sub, my Don relatively new to the lifestyle as well, tons to learn! I adore my Dom and it is my deepest desire to please him. Thank you for all your useful information and insights.
Questions: I struggle greatly with maintaining my center during correction or when I am aware he is upset with me..especially during an especially intense 'come down' - it has made us spiral a few times.. we both want to learn to navigate these times better. I wish to learn all I can... thank you for you efforts toward that end.
320 February 19 2010 at 02:21:32
Comments: I started to say, "My submissive forwarded ...." Publicly starting that way without benefit of introducing her was belittling and disloyal to her. My One forwarded this site to me this morning. I've read several sections and will continue to do, seeing another nuance everytime I do. All who are interested in or seriously pursuing the lifestyle should spend time here reading and contemplating. Thank you for all your dedicated attention and efforts.
321 February 18 2010 at 09:44:46
Comments: Very informative! A wealth of information
322 February 11 2010 at 08:54:27
323 February 06 2010 at 11:05:29
Comments: Thank you very much. Learning submissive
Questions: Learning submissive
Email: cannot disclose
324 February 01 2010 at 05:01:18
Comments: Well it seems many are new to this life as they post here. I join those ranks. I wanted to thank you for dispelling many of my misguiderd notions about what a sub may do and what she is not required to do. I loved learning there was a difference between use and abuse and that a good DOM will not abuse you. My fear of this has made me pull back for this more than once. I am searching for a DOM now and this sight gave me good advice as to flags I should watch for and I quickly ceased communication with two such men I had begun speaking with. Although I crave the care and protection of a man I can respect to take on this role and have had some trials into this life before now I know now that I dont have to settle until I feel the man who will cherish and protect me fairly but firmly comes along.
Questions: I do need to ask though. You say turn off the PC and step away form the DOMs here for fear they are mabies and wannabes. Where then do I go to try to make a connection with the right man? You cant exactly ask a guy in a bar Hey bud wanna take my heart my mind and my body on as my Master and protector?
325 January 26 2010 at 08:56:37
Questions: Hello! I'm a novice submissive, and I've been very impressed with the professionalism and sound, logical advice of the articles on this site. My master is actually a very shy, quiet person out of scene. I want to be able to talk abour boundaries and needs BEFORE a scene...but when he's not aroused, my master is very shy and easily embarrassed. How do I breach the subject without making him uncomfortable?
326 January 22 2010 at 12:03:36
Comments: still searching the site ,great so far,will spend some time browsing and report back again,thanks.
Questions: im very keen to explore,never done anything related to bdsm.any pointers for a novice.
327 January 19 2010 at 19:46:33
Comments: I am completely new to this and have found so much information here. It answers a lot of questions that I have asked myself for years. I want to thank you for the time and effort you have spent on this site. The good you have done here for me and countless others is a testiment to "walking the walk, not just talking the talk". Thank you again
Questions: I understand that one of a doms obligations is to help his/her sub to reach their full potential. In this relationship can a sub decide to become a dom and what is the responsibility of his/her dom to help her in this decision if it is determined they really want this?
Name: Jim Martin
328 January 18 2010 at 01:35:10
Comments: I was shown your website by a submissive personality interested in knowing more. You know your stuff and helped her understand more about these relationships, and the power that she has. Thank you.
329 January 13 2010 at 05:19:28
Comments: Thank You so very much for the thoughts and inspiration that this site has provided i am new to the Lifestyle and seeking as much knowledge as possible to as to please my Sir the Dom i answer to will always be pleased, it was at His request i read and learn , so thank You so very much , i am in search of the poses that i must learn i am thanking You again so very much
Questions: Where can i find a libray of the poses that my Sir will require ? i am trying to locate to no avail , Thank You so much for any and all assistance that you can lend
Name: sunshine rodriguez
330 January 06 2010 at 10:22:28
Comments: A most wonderful site. I am going to be entering into a dm/sm relationship and am reading everything I can find.
Name: Cynthia Q
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